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History
February 2005, Capodichino airport, we have
just arrived from Sharm el Sheik where we spent a fantastic week
rich of immersions and excursions in the desert, saving in our minds
colors, landscapes, scents and feelings made more indelible for
having spent those moments together. We six, joined by a sincere,
deep, ancient friendship and by the shared passion for the sea and
scuba diver.
During our weekly
immersions and numerous trips, so many situations had been created
and they gave us the possibility to know and join each other
although we aren’t contemporaries: we are, in fact, from 25 to 49
years old.
Just out the airport, we watched each other and
understood that we were just thinking about the next destination!
Saturday, March
2005, we are in the usual pizzeria and we are already taking a look
to the brochure of holiday locations. “…We must decide! A year runs
away quickly!” I don’t remember who had the idea to go to Kenya, I
only remember that, at the end, the chorus was unanimous: “Ok,
let’s go to Kenya!”
In that very
moment we decided the day of departure: February 24th 2006.
We spent the remaining months surfing the internet to find all the
possible information and pictures about the location we had chosen:
“WATAMU”.
In common
agreement, as usual, we chose the locations for the immersions, the
places to visit, the area for the safari and, because of the
favorable exchange, we thought about the possibility to stay there a
week more. Time goes by very fast and soon the day of the departure
came.
Everything was
ready: the scuba diver equipment, cameras, video cameras, protective
lotions, and we found also a little corner for sweets, papers and
pens in our suitcase; because “this makes so much tourists”.
The
plane left and landed on time to bring us… to a meeting that would
have changed our way of seeing ordinary things, our habits, our
life.
We got in the “bus” that would have conducted us
to our village in about two hours. We were tired but very excited.
We passed through
Monbasa center, among thousand colors and joyful children. But soon
the landscape changed. No more palaces and buildings, but huts made
of metal, carton sheets or mud. Thousands people were surviving in
that chaos, where total misery reigned.
Our enthusiasm faint while unconsciously we were going to our
meeting.

When we crossed
the village gate, we had the impression to have returned back on
earth and that a big door were closed behind us, border between
welfare and poverty, bringing us back in tourist clothes.
From
Italy, we had contacted a beach boy, one of those many local boys
that works bringing tourists around Africa. His name was “Tuffo”. He
didn’t know to have an appointment, either. We called him the very
evening we arrived and we asked him to bring us around Watamu so we
would have talked about what to do the following days.
Beach boys are not
allowed to enter the villages, so we met him in front of the
village’s gate… the border. He just was there waiting for us. He
went and met us smiling. While he was shaking our hands, we felt the
same feeling, that’s to say we finally were at the meeting we
planned since a long time. We were immediately surrounded by tens of
children wearing rugs “if it could be said so”; their faces
enlightened by innocents smiles. Soon there was around us a forest
of stretched hands waiting to receive something.
Watching us, Tuffo
told “Welcome my friends… Africa is also this!”. The younger of our
group went back to the village to take pens, papers, and sweets, and
with pleasure made himself
overwhelmed
by the children that welcomed him smiling. Soon their smiles turned
off leaving the place to desperation. Their little hands turned into
claws because they didn’t want to loose what they had conquered: a
pen, a paper, a sweet.
That fight ended soon, living on the ground the
younger and weaker children, that, without crying, looked at us with
the resignation of who had lived that scene so many times. At the
same time our young friend was looking around searching for the
children that were disappeared by magic in the dark of the night
with the preys in their hands. No one dared to tell anything about
what happened, but everyone felt the bitterness of what we saw that
night.
The following
morning
we made the first two immersions of
the eight ones planned. We never
made the other
six. pr

The second day, as
we planned with Tuffo, we went to the “Tsavo East safari park”.
Everything was beautiful and exciting, the red earth path, all those
animals, lions, zebras, giraffes, hippos, elephants, gazelles; we
seemed to be in a zoo without bars or borders. “…How we would like
if the whole world was like this”.
During a break
Tuffo asked us our impressions about what we saw. We expressed our
satisfaction and we asked him what we had not seen about this
beautiful Africa, yet.
On his always
relaxed and happy face, wrinkles of sadness appeared, the bright
black of his eyes became gloomy as the sound of his voice. He made
his lips narrower as searching for the strength to talk and
answered: “…What didn’t you see?” He answered “The truth!”
The
truth that can’t be showed to anyone, but that is under the eyes of
who doesn’t see or pretend not to see.
And then he added
in his African Italian “You aren’t like the others, your way to look
at things is different and I will show it to you!”.
It was in that
very moment that our trip changed completely. It was in that very
moment that the “Africa sickness” cached us.
Before leaving,
Tuffo told us what to expect there, so we refilled our van of
biscuits, sweets, water bottles, dresses, and even toys, in the
Malindi market. The van was loaded with everything we bought with
the
money
previously assigned to our souvenirs and the Casino. The following
two days we crossed hundreds of kilometers with our van through the
internal areas. We reached tens little villages composed by huts
where so many children, ( “My God!” never seen so many!) lived
abandoned to themselves under the absent look of some old people.
When we arrived, the children run away to hide behind the huts,
trees, or bushes. Then, after Tuffo reassured them, they came out in
little groups keeping each other’s hands. The older ones were
bringing into their arms the younger ones and slowly they made a
circle around us. At every stop we distributed all we had, but it
was always less.
We
received in exchange a warm and sincere “asante sana” (thank you)
together with how much beautiful can exist:, a child’s smile.

We
came back to the village and, while the sun was painting the red
sunset on the bay, we Tuffo inside the
tepid water of the ocean, some strokes and then we talked on the
beach… “We can do more. Yes! We can do more. Let’s give up the rest
of the immersions, the excursions, and the additional week and let’s
do something. That very evening we gathered all our money but… how
to spent it? The choice was very easy. “Tuffo!” Yes! He surely would
have given us the right advise. So “no sooner said than done”, we
called him and we went to the meeting over the usual border.
We
went to a bar and while drinking a beer, we made him aware of our
intentions. After having listened to us, he stood few seconds with
the glass in his hand, he looked at us and then, with two “big
tears” in his black eyes, said: “I have been doing this job for ten
years, and trust me, I’ve met a lot of people… but no one like you…
during these days I have learnt to know you and I have never,
neither for a moment, felt like at your service, but one of you, one
of your friends. Asante sana by me and all my people”.
We are not able to
report what we felt hearing such words; we can only say that we all
felt the need to join together in a long embrace.
It
was decided to donate all we could to an orphanage. The following
evening, after having “burgled” a couple of Watamu’s supermarkets,
we went there with our van extra-full of goods; rise, flour, milk,
biscuits, detergents, toothpaste, beans, olive oil and all the
medicines we had.



In that wonderful
African night, we crossed a path for about ten kilometers absorbed
in a brushwood in which a dozen of small oil lamps shined and from
the dark , enlighten by the headlights, stocked out shapes that,
like zombies, came close to the path curious for our passage.
Thank
to our driver Simba, we arrived at our destination. Among the trees,
in the dark, we glimpsed a fifteen meters long brickwork building.
Tuffo got off the van and moved towards a building. Soon he came out
with a woman that lighted up the way with an oil lamp… all around
there was silence. We got off the van and started carrying the goods
to the building. Crossed the little wooden door, we found us in a
room lighted up only by two lamps… we got used to the lack of
“light”, and only after that we managed to focus our attention on
the little smiling faces that were watching us curiously.

With the weight boxes still in our hands, we
stood looking at those children, more than 50, in their dirty
clothes, but with the most beautiful dress they could wear, “…their
smiles”. Silence was broken by a pure child’s voice that started to
sing the famous song “Jambo Jambo Kenya” accompanied by some
instruments made of tin boxes.
We felt a
strong emotion, from our eyes tears went down without control. Our
hearts got used to rest impassive to the deep marine emotions, gone
crazy beating very fast. We put down the boxes on a cement table and
we went back to the van and every time we returned to the
building
with other boxes, the chant became loud and loud accompanied by the
applauses of the children that looked at us incredulous. The younger
ones made themselves closer to their “teacher”, the older ones
searched for our hands and, singing, they embraced us. It is not
easy to describe what we felt, nor describe the further emotion
given to us by seeing our Kenyan friend “Tuffo” applauding us while
he was crying.

It was not easy to
control our emotion but just when we were able to “connect”, we sat
among them and only in that very moment we understood that we were
receiving more than we gave them…! The moment of goodbye was very
exciting; in fact it wasn’t easy to separate from the younger’s hugs
and… from their black eyes asking for a promise! “Don’t forget us”.

Since our return
to Italy, we thought to those children and to the few things we had
done for them. We felt like… “drops in the ocean”. But the
consciousness that… “also a drop is life” has given us the
motivation to create this initiative whose purpose is to gather
founds to give to that orphanage.
Sorry if we appeared prolix, but what we wrote in this pages is not
enough to let you understand what we felt staying there: the feeling
we proved living that experience and the happiness to feel ourselves
“… a drop in the ocean”.
Thank you from us… and
from they all! |